'I'm with you because you're sensible.' Outside of marriage, there is only one motive for a man to talk about relationships

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In this impetuous society, it is nothing new for men to cheat and find a mistress.

So, what are the criteria for a married man to find a mistress?

If the derailment has a segment:

Bronze men will choose green tea types with fair skin and beautiful skin;

Silver men will choose sexy and enthusiastic hot girls;

Diamond men, will choose intelligent and independent intellectual type;

And the king will choose the sensible and obedient type.

Yes, being obedient and sensible has gradually become one of the important criteria for more and more married men to choose a lover.

In most cases, the reason why a man looks for a mistress is not because he and his wife have no feelings for each other. Instead, they may still love their wives.

It’s just that I’m not reconciled to the dullness of married life, and I want to find some freshness outside to reconcile my life.

Regarding the matter of cheating, in fact, men are like mirrors in their hearts, and they have a clear distinction: a lover is a lover, a wife is a wife, and a lover can never replace a wife.

So when looking for a lover, in addition to being beautiful, the other party must also be obedient and sensible.

Because such a woman will not make trouble unreasonably, and will not break up her family by force of death.

Since you are spending money to find a lover, of course you need to find one that is easy to control, hassle-free, and is cost-effective.

So girls, don’t be silly. Those married men who say they love you don’t really love you.

They just love the girl who is sensible and doesn’t cause him any trouble, and if it’s not you, so can others.

“I am with you because you are sensible”, that’s all!

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I don’t know if you still remember, a hot word on the Internet that once swept the entire Internet: “Dare in love? The kind that goes to jail!”

It was Wu Xiubo, who was regarded as an ideal “good man” by thousands of girls back then.

Wu Xiubo cheated on actress Chen Yulin, who was 26 years younger than her marriage.

The two had an affair for seven years. During their relationship, Wu Xiubo doted on her very much. She has helped her a lot in both career and life.

Later, with the exposure of their relationship, the two broke up completely, and the woman became more and more out of control. Wu Xiubo simply refused to do anything, took her to court, and sent her to prison by himself.

Seven years of youth, in exchange for a prison disaster. Sad, pitiful, deplorable!

For married men, lover is such a status.

When you are obedient, you can spoil you and coax you; when you are not obedient, you can also destroy and defeat you.

No sympathy to speak of.

But then again, sympathy is sympathy. A little girl, at a young age, puts aside serious love, and does not think about how to achieve the success she wants through her own efforts.

Rather, it is an attempt to take shortcuts in exchange for a so-called high-quality life. And in the case of knowing that the other party has a family, he has to entangle with a married man.

This in itself is an extremely unethical act.

So no matter what the outcome is. The bitter fruit that you brewed yourself, after all, you have to pay for yourself.

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Many people may have this confusion:

Do married men have real feelings for women outside of marriage?

In fact, no one can tell about feelings. Maybe, maybe not.

But what is worth affirming is that men who are willing to pay for extramarital affairs may only find one or two out of a hundred.

However, these one or two men are either doing nothing, or making up the world.

In short, a successful man like Chen Junsheng who is willing to be responsible for the mistress will always only live in the script of the screenwriter.

In reality, most married men cheat because they are tired of the food at home and want to eat a roadside stall to stimulate their taste buds.

Roadside stalls are delicious, but eating too much is a threat to health. Home-cooked food is light, but life-long benefits.

Of course, he will also be like a man in love, good morning, good afternoon, good night, and good night; he will also take you to taste the world’s food and see the world’s beautiful scenery; holiday gifts, flowers and red envelopes will not fall; pamper you, coax you, For fear that you will be unhappy, for fear that you will be wronged.

Do you think this is love?

of course not.

This is just the most basic operation for every married man to make girls willing to be their underground lovers.

It’s easy for a man to pretend he likes someone.

What’s more, it’s just a rhetoric and a little money, which is the most unskilled routine in their opinion.

There was once a “Dwelling”, everyone wanted to be Guo Haizao, and everyone wanted to be Song Siming.

Does Song Siming really love seaweed? I don’t think so.

I noticed Seaweed at first, but because she looked like her late first love, the goddess. With her, maybe just to make up for the regret of missing your first love.

When they get along, they probably just regard her as the shadow of the goddess, so they dote on her in every possible way.

Later, Song encountered a change. Although regardless of the life and death of his wife and daughter, he left all the money to Haizao, and asked a friend to pick her up to live abroad. It seems that he loves Haizao miserably, but in fact it is because Haizao is pregnant with a boy, the only male in his Song family.

So you see, how good a married man is to women outside of marriage, the more his motives are.

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Women must not listen to the man’s nonsense “in two years, I will marry you”, and then have illusions about your future.

The impact of divorce on men can be described as affecting the whole body. It’s not as simple as taking his wife and going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to exchange the certificate.

It can cost men social credibility. Especially for some people with social status, divorce will affect the development of personal career and career.

Even if he doesn’t care about these, the property division faced by divorce is enough to make a man take off a layer of skin.

For the sake of a junior, to take advantage of the foundation that they have worked hard for half their life and the happiness of the second half of their lives, they have not yet been so stupid.

Furthermore, isn’t their original intention of looking for a mistress just because they were tired of the dullness of marriage, so they came to find something new and exciting?

Divorce from the original spouse, marry the mistress again, wait a few years for the passion to fade, and start repeating the same boring marriage life. Why bother yourself so much?

Man, don’t be stupid.

Therefore, I advise those girls who have become a junior, or have the idea of ​​a junior.

No matter whether you are the third party in someone else’s marriage, whether you are active or passive, no matter how hype the man gives you.

Don’t touch feelings that shouldn’t exist.

For myself, and for the face of my parents.